February 2012
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threethirtythreee asked: Can I have a cool gif? :)
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ahmedalzahrani asked: same, used to think you were a snobby "don't give a fuck about anyone" type of individual, mind you I was a fan and thought it was hilarious, but respect has been earned in abundance, as someone who's had to deal with these kinds of topics as of late, im such a bigger fan now then I was hours ago
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sirmattypants asked: girrafes have teamed up with sentient pears to wage war against sentient pineapples and polar bears. bananas or chair?
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whatkills asked: I agree with what you're saying but I also think that tumblr is kind of trying to get people to seek professional help as opposed to just blogging about their problems. I mean you can blog all you want but if you need genuine help, posting pictures of your cuts won't get you very far, also it is the internet and people are assholes it could very easily back fire on you.
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Anonymous asked: dude, I used to think you were just one of those people who didnt give a fuck about anything and just bitched people out all the time. Youre actually pretty great. I found a whole new respect for you. Also, for anyone reading, if the butterfly method doesnt work for you, try having an elastic band around your wrist. Snap it when you feel triggered, it gives off the same kind of pain cutting does,...
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Anonymous asked: GIF react to this
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starkidlucy asked: You seem like someone I would get along with. All I require is a yes or no- do you follow me on your main?
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p0okie asked: You could not be more true about the "emo" name. I had a friend call me last night as he was cutting and said he hadn't contacted anyone else yet because he knew he would be called an "emo bitch" by his other friends. Can you believe that?
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unitardss asked: What are your 10 favorite bands? c:
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liveforever-ornever asked: who do you fangirl over? :0
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Anonymous asked: I LOVE what you just said about that point. It seems that many people who support cutters (support helping them to stop etc) like to say that no one does it for attention. I think that's bad because the fact is sometimes that's exactly the reason! The answer isn't to deny it, because that sends a message that it would be a "bad reason". I think it's better to...
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Anonymous asked: You're a compassionate individual and I love you for it. The world needs more of you.
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miss-gates asked: I was just wondering. Do you like Avenged Sevenfold??
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crazymlc asked: You are my spirit animal.
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Anonymous asked: I think as far as what motivates a person to stop cutting, it'll be different for everyone. I don't even think there's a "norm" or a "majority" because the reason for cutting is different for everyone. I can totally see the butterfly project working for one person and seeming pointless to another. It all just comes down to people that are hurting in more than one...
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Anonymous asked: What happened to the asshole FYR we all know and love?
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uselessteenager asked: The method kind of worked for me. I had stopped a long time ago, but my boyfriend and I broke up and I was really upset about it. I know it's dumb to even think about hurting yourself over someone, but he was also my best friend and we knew everything about each other. I read about the method and did it and it did work in a way. I don't think I really ever would have cut, but it was a...
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Anonymous asked: have you lost followers since you've started this dashboard-clogging debate?
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Anonymous asked: you're personal is just a bunch of nudes, isn't it? it's cool. i dig.
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zillybooradley asked: as someone who used the butterfly method, I love it. i think it depends, but I started cutting because of shame and guilt. my butterfly didn't make that worse. it motivated me to try harder, for the sake of my butterfly. drawing on myself also provided a similar feeling to the one I felt when I cut.
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Anonymous asked: A lot of time guilt doesn't stop someone who self-mutilates, it just leads them to get sneakier about their mutilation. Speaking from experience here.
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Anonymous asked: If I asked for your personal using my actual account instead of anon can you answer with a private message so I can follow? I'd just love to follow your personal blog.
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capamerica08 asked: Hey, there. I understand what you're saying about the whole butterfly method and all, but sometimes there are people that have to be guilt-ed into stopping. I had a friend in high school, that cut herself and I had to guilt her into stopping, and she thanked me for it.
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distractedgenius asked: As someone who has used the Butterfly method, it actually worked for me. I heard it was more a sign of support for people who were cutting themselves however. But I stopped cutting using it. However, it won't work for everyone, and I do know that. Just thought I'd put that in the discussion.
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Anonymous asked: Do you have a personal blog? I think this has already been asked, but you seem like a person I would love to follow and hear your opinions more often.
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godsprincess1993 asked: You know what I hate? When people tell me, "Oh you could have it so much worse," That just makes people feel 10 million times worse for being depressed and hurt already you know?
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Anonymous asked: Hell, i don't even like butterflies! When i'm triggered as fuck, drawing on myself isn't going to fix anything. I've never even tried it because it's just so laughable and insulting. Good for those that it actually works on, but as a REAL solution? Please....
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sweetwinterhello asked: I know some other people have already said this, but thank you for your opinions and understanding. I made a post about Tumblr's new policy already and people haven't given me hate about it, but a lot of blogs I follow just don't get it and are all for the policy and like "Yeah I am so happy about this! Finally! Its needs to be done!" And it makes me sick that so many...
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grrrlfoxxx asked: cutter and burner here. take guilt out of the equation. the butterfly "trick" is just that. A trick. There's enough guilt and shame with self-harm anyway. What we need is support and distractions and love and validation, not some sort of avoidance and shaming-as-tool technique.
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littlemisshideyourscarsx asked: I love what you said. Wanting to take your life is serious and being called over dramatic and selfish makes you feel worse about yourself. Thank you. <3 I have felt that way..
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Anonymous asked: Gee the butterfly method sounds like a great tool. For inflicting guilt and shame on someone who's already in incredible pain. Great.
Anonymous asked: Hey, this is a suggestion for current cutters, it's called the butterfly method, or something like that. Anyways, before you're tempted to cut, you draw a butterfly on the are where you'd usually cut (eg wrist). Underneath the butterfly, you write the name of someone important to you. The symbolism is that if you cut the butterfly, you're hurting the person who's important...
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Anonymous asked: I just wanted to say, even if you have never suffered from self harm, it's really nice to see someone strong who actually gets it. I have (more than I would like) experience with self harm and suicide, but I talk to people, friends of mine, who automatically jump to thinking that someone who is suicidal is just being selfish for wanting to take their life, or melodramatic. And it's just...
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unspoken-unbroken-promises asked: Thank you so much for caring. I used to cut myself every day. I've been clean for a while, though. I'm sitting here, reading what comes up on my dash from your page and I want to cry, I'm so happy that a blog I really love for not taking anyone's shit is also one that actually /cares/ about this stuff... you just restored a good deal of my faith in humanity. Thank you so much.
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duskdancermeow asked: Can you make that rebloggable? I am so sick of people going off at me when I try to understand people and they think I can't do it just because I haven't suffered like the.
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Anonymous asked: I'm starting to think that you may have suffered with self-harm.
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thecharles asked: I just want to say I completely agree with you concerning this censorship issue, and even your fascination with the thought process of people who deal with that sort of thing. Anything we can't understand or reason, we have to express or it festers and ultimately gets expressed somehow, usually in a destructive way. Musicians do it, poets do it, painters do it, and for some people, blogging...
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Anonymous asked: NO NO NO it would definitely NOT be better. There are people who struggle with self-harm or eating disorders, and tumblr is their diary, their only reprieve. They use it to describe their struggle, but to also vent and it helps them feel better. Not to mention, it is also helpful to connect to people who have the same issues and then to have someone who understands when you want to talk about...
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Anonymous asked: I agree with you on this whole issue. I don't think the staff is going to take time to sort through what's a recovery blog and what isn't. I follow several recovery blogs, and they do help. I'd rather leave the pro-ana/pro-mia/pro-SH (though I'm not sure if those really exist) up than lose the recovery blogs.
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oh-snap-itz-kelsii asked: Have you ever considered becoming a motivational speaker, psychiatrist or lecturer? You would be an amazing one, just saying! ^_^ I love your blog btw!
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mamaslittlefaggot asked: I just wanna say... isn’t it better to have anything even remotely related to that sort of topic deleted, rather than leave everything as it is and possibly hurt people? I mean, I agree that the staff members might not take great care on the subject, and I can see where that would concern someone. But I think, if these measures have to be taken, it’s still better than someone killing...
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Anonymous asked: If the policy was clearer, I would be much less hesitant to support it. The thing is that all the blogs with Pro-Ana and such honestly sicken me to the core and I believe that it is harmful to tumblr users who see it. However, because it is so vague, I can't really say I'm all for it either.
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Anonymous asked: I totally agree with your opinion on the new policy. People should not be promoting it, but that does not mean they should take away the right to vent about it.
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danielle-grace asked: Nah, I'm not comparing them, not even slightly. I was just pointing out that the person I was referring to made a very broad statement.
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Anonymous asked: you're wrong/stupid/whatever
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Anonymous asked: Are you getting tired of answering asks about your opinion on Tumblr's new content policy?
danielle-grace asked: I am somewhat against the vague policy (I'd be all for it if it was very specific about the types of blogs it'll be combating) but, I have to say. "Censorship is wrong, no matter what. Even if the content is wrong as well." Decent idea, but the last sentence ruined it. The content can be wrong and need to be censored. Things like child porn, do you think they should go...
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damianfuckingstark asked: Why are people wanking to you about this? It's not your responsibility to deal with blogs like that. You're a reaction gif blog, not a staff member. I just don't think they should be jumping on you about it.
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Anonymous asked: I think it's a fine policy and I don't like your opinion (I normally don't anyway)
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weshallbekind asked: Just jumping on the bandwagon here to talk about this, but I think its not a good policy. It would be too vague. It could be misunderstood. I think the blogs they are trying to get rid of are HORRIBLE and shouldn't be there. But when it comes down to it, a lot of people would think the same thing about nudity, porn, black people, or gays. Censorship is wrong, no matter what. Even if the...